Well, I think I finally got it!!! Yesterday I sprayed one part and finally got the hang of spraying the single stage smooth enough were I am happy. And most importantly, I was able to see what the heck I was doing.
So the problem I was having was all light related! I was so eager to make a nice spray booth that I spent a little fortune on a bunch of powerful LED light fixtures. It was nice and bright, but so much so that I was getting blinded and could not see the darn paint going on the surface. So a few days ago I turned off all the lights and only kept one at each on the side I was spraying. Voila! Now I can perfectly see what the heck I am doing and sprayed a nice thin but wet coat of paint. Phew, that took a darn long time to figure out (and a quart of paint). But know I feel confident I can do this.
Temperature was a little high at 88ish so used a little retarder on the last coat. I also reverted to spraying with my Iwata Kiwami4 (Bellaria) instead of the Wider4L (LPH400). I think I find the faster spraying style of the Kiwami4 a little more to my liking but I am still intrigued by trying to get a good result from the Wider (since it cost almost twice as much and people talk so much about the LPH400 in this forum!).
Attached are a couple of pictures of the part (rudder) I painted yesterday. Top and bottom. You can see the two lights I left at the end (same at the opposite end for the other side). I sprayed with the part vertical (which previously was a challenge) but rotated the part for the picture taken taken maybe half hour after spraying the second coat).
I want to thank all of you in this forum for your patience and help answering all my questions and to Barry for the time he spent getting me to this point.
Chris